“You look amazing.”
Acknowledge (and appreciate) that she primped for you. Trust us, even if this is a simple latte liaison, a degree of decision-making went into that jeans-tee-ponytail combo she’s got going on. No need to be too specific; just let her know you’ve noticed that she looks good.
“How was your day?”
This may seem innocuous, but it shows you care and are interested in her life. Make sure to really listen to the response, rather than glaze over when she itemizes details of a petty spat with a co-worker. Bonus: It’ll give you something to follow up on in a later conversation (e.g., “Did you patch things up with that crazy woman in finance?”)
“I’m really having a great time with you.”
Probably the best thing you can say mid-date! It takes the edge off, lets her know she can relax. You’ll also get feedback on how she’s feeling. Hopefully she’ll beam back and say “Me too!” as opposed to a sniffed “How nice.”
Wednesday, April 04, 2007
Guys should read this story on MSN Dating & Personals about the 5 things you should say to your date (sweet talk!) and 5 things you should not. You're welcome. From MSN:
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